'Between Goodbyes' takes close look at adoptees reconnecting with birth mothers
"Between Goodbyes" is an amazing documentary by talented filmmaker Jota Mun that premiered in Korea and continues to make waves throughout the international film scene. It follows Mieke, an ethnic Korean who was sent to the Netherlands at a young age for adoption. The film focuses on Mieke as she experiences a moment many adoptees long for: reuniting with her birth mother. But her journey doesn’t stop there — she also meets her extended birth family. As moving as this reunion is, it is only the beginning. The film does a remarkable job of exploring such a reunion's complexities and emotional weight. It delves into Mieke’s perspective and offers something rarely seen in films — an intimate look at the birth family’s emotions and experiences. Often, in both fictional and documentary storytelling, the birth mother or family appears only at the end, their reunion portrayed as an unfiltered moment of joy. "Between Goodbyes," however, presents a more nuanced reality. Mieke’s birth mother, Okgyun, opens her heart to the audience, sharing the relief, happiness, stress and frustrat
Mar 9, 2025By Antonia Giordano