Dreams, despair of ’migrant brides’ in Paju
By Kim Young-jin
PAJU, Gyeonggi Province — Nguyen Thi Thang, a Vietnamese woman married to a Korean man, quietly wants a divorce. But she rarely entertains the thought — returning to her hometown farm would deprive her five-year-old son of growing up in a developed country.
The marriage was brokered four years ago by a family acquaintance, with the groom more than likely paying under the table for the matchmaking.
But it is not because of him that she wants out — it’s her in-laws.
“I get abuse from them every day,” said Nguyen, 34, who works in a ginseng factory in this city nestled into the greenery of northern Gyeonggi Province. “But I have to think about my child.”
Things are brighter for her co-worker, Dinh Thi Khuyen.
The 26-year-old who arrived five years ago says she’s living happily despite the age gap of over 20 years with her office worker husband, especially since she learned Korean.
“It’s less frustrating these days. My husband treats me pretty well,” Dinh said.
They are among the some 1,300 “migrant wives” living in Paju aft
Jul 12, 2011