(316) Well-being vs. well-dying
By Janet ShinWhile well-being is regarded as pursuing a good quality of life, well-dying means something different. It sounds that well-dying is the opposite of well-being. But it’s not. I experienced a profound change in my view of well-being, which happened with my father’s death. He passed away in 2012 after chronic suffering from cancer. It was painful to watch his death as I had attended him at his bedside until the end. Once you know the truth, and think about the profound questions of life and death, you realize that death is not just a sorrowful thing but can even be a blessing. When my father was suffering from cancer, the doctors found an additional tumor, which was still in its incipient stage. The doctors did not exactly predict how much time he had left, but told him he could live for a year, maybe even more, if he got an operation. He chose to have the operation to remove the tumor. As it turned out, he couldn’t survive for long, even if the surgery was successful, which it wasn’t. Instead, he was troubled with all the difficulties
Oct 29, 2015