Recent Books
The Four Things That Matter Most
Ira Byock; Translated by Kwak Myung-dan from English to Korean; Mulpure; 282 pp., 12,000 won
When Ven. Beop Jeong, one of the most revered monks in the nation, passed away last month, he left an important message ― life can end beautifully empty of possessions but full of spiritual highness.
A book written by Ira Byock, a palliative care physician and long-time public advocate for improving care while approaching death, advises people on the four things people should do before dying. The four tasks involve ``Forgiving,’’ ``Thank You,’’``I Love You,’’ and ``Good-Bye.’’
The author has spent the last couple of decades taking care of terminally-ill patients and contributed to relieving their pain before dying. A ``beautiful death’’ depends not on social status and wealth but on relationships between people and inner peace, which are critical aspects for both a beautiful death and a meaningful life.
The book details his personal experiences with patients who faced premature deaths but were able to pass away with peaceful minds. The write
Apr 2, 2010