Key insights to psychotherapy

Friends and family members often ask me about psychotherapy (or therapy) for themselves or for their loved ones. Typically, they are either overwhelmed by the sheer volume of information online or confused by conflicting opinions from different sources. While an excellent resource, the internet may contain misleading or inaccurate information. Caution is warranted. This column addresses frequently asked questions including who psychotherapists are, who benefits from their services and what qualities make them effective. Although the information here is not exhaustive, it should help eliminate confusion and assist people in making informed decisions about therapy.
Psychotherapy is an umbrella term that describes any kind of "talk-based" therapy for treating mental health conditions. Professionals who practice psychotherapy include psychiatrists, psychologists, counselors and (clinical) social workers. Although their education, licensing requirements and approaches may differ, all are trained to recognize symptoms, assess severity levels and provide customized treatments. Only psychiatrists are authorized to prescribe medications. The relationships among these professionals are complementary; they collaborate through referrals and consultations to provide comprehensive treatment for clients. For example, a psychologist may refer a client to a psychiatrist for evaluation regarding medication while consulting with a social worker for community resources. Likewise, a psychiatrist may refer a client to a psychologist for specialized therapeutic interventions or psychological testing.
Common myths are that therapy is only for those with severe mental health conditions or that seeking therapy is a sign of weakness. Therapy can benefit anyone who needs support and guidance, regardless of the nature of their issues. People can bring any life challenge to a therapist. For example, therapy can aid in developing coping strategies for everyday challenges including academic pressure, work-related stress, interpersonal conflicts, financial concerns and loss or grief. It can also address more complex mental health conditions, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder. Confronting problems and seeking help especially in the face of societal stigma shows personal strength. Reaching out for support demonstrates courage and a commitment to personal growth.
Talk therapy normally refers to a one-on-one process, but can occur in family or group settings. Unlike individual therapy, the success of group therapy depends on group dynamics. Positive group dynamics contribute to creating a safe and supportive environment where members take risks and share their concerns without fear of repercussions. This sharing allows for more effective problem-solving as members receive feedback, support and encouragement from multiple people. Group therapy also alleviates the pressure to form an intense, one-on-one relationship with a therapist. It can be particularly valuable for those who struggle to connect individually with a therapist or feel uncomfortable sharing personal issues with outer circle members.
Finding the right therapist is an arduous process complicated by personal needs, accessibility and affordability. Potential clients can obtain referrals or recommendations from primary care physicians, local universities and community mental health centers. One key consideration is the therapist’s theoretical orientations and techniques which inform the type of intervention used. Therapists often adopt an “eclectic” approach drawing on multiple theoretical orientations and techniques. This approach guides therapists in interpreting clients’ experiences and helps individualize treatment by applying validated measures found to be most effective for their problems. Information about a therapist’s approach is available online. Also, one can always ask during the initial interview with the therapist to determine whether the two are a good fit.
Effective therapists foster progress toward therapeutic goals. Therapy starts with the client’s presenting problem, but the therapist soon seeks to lead the conversation toward what is most important and urgent. Dismantling rigid defenses, guiding clients to find their own solutions and engaging them to act all require intuition, attention, sensitivity and verbal fluency. In addition, the therapist must understand cultural nuances and have the emotional and intellectual maturity to maintain professional boundaries. Therapists may use self-disclosure to narrow the psychological distance between the two with increased identification and openness, but they must do so carefully as excessive or inappropriate sharing can jeopardize the therapeutic relationship or impinge on mental health. Effective therapists balance self-disclosure to solidify the therapeutic alliance while minimizing potential risks.
Because therapy is a collaborative journey that requires venturing into the unknown, finding the right therapist is crucial to achieving desired outcomes. Demystifying therapy and destigmatizing mental health are also necessary steps toward successful therapy that promotes healthy coping, personal development and positive outcomes. Help-seeking is a vital form of self-care and signifies internal strength. With the right support, education and opportunities, psychotherapy can become a transformative force that enables us to live more fulfilling lives.
Ma Kyung-hee is a researcher and editor specializing in mental health.