'Forget Me Not': A Korean-born adoptee's ode to her birth mother
A picture of Sun Hee Engelstoft, then called Shin Sun Hee, before her adoption / Courtesy of Connect PicturesBy Kwak Yeon-sooSun Hee Engelstoft, who was born in Busan in 1982, was 4 months old when she was flown to Denmark to meet her white adoptive parents.Her biological mother had given her up for adoption, and through no choice of her own, she became part of the large adoption exodus: more than 210,000 babies have been sent overseas for adoption since the end of the Korean War in 1953.Engelstoft recalls that although she was the only Korean in her village, she has had a good life living in the midst of nature. She also lived for three years in a refugee camp in Botswana in the 1980s where her parents were volunteer workers. “I have a strong bond with my adoptive family. I loved school, but I was always an outsider. When I would walk down the street, my schoolmates would touch my hair because it was dark and different from theirs. Overall it was a beautiful, but isolated time,” she said during an interview with The Korea Times, Monday. Having attended several schools fo
