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20 things women do that men secretly hate

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  • Published Dec 28, 2015 5:25 pm KST
  • Updated Dec 28, 2015 5:25 pm KST

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Narmia Karp at Herbeauty has revealed the 20 things women do that men secretly hate.

She advises women to pay attention to what she has to say, because these things can only worsen your relationship.

1. Men believe jealousy as very unattractive trait in a woman. Men usually do not like women constantly watching their boyfriends when they talk to other women.

2. Too much makeup. Men do not want red lipstick stains on their shirts and face every day. Some men think women with low-self esteem wear too much makeup.

3. The same goes for perfume. Do not douse yourself in perfume. Natural scent and pheromones work better.

4. Fake org. Do men a favor and be honest -- a fake orgasm is not helping anyone.

5. Staying on the phone for a long time every time.

6. Related to talking on the phone, men do not like a girl who is catty about other girls when gossiping.

7. Talking in a baby voice -- he is not a pet for you to use baby talk.

8. Let your boyfriend dress how he wants rather than trying to dictate his style.

9. If you are not good at drinking alcohol, do not try to outdrink men or to drink as much. It is not sexy at all, and vomiting in a toilet at the end of the night is the worst thing.

10. Do not obsess about communication. Men do not appreciate needy women who call them every 10 minutes, or text constantly.

11. Men become annoyed if their girlfriends are obsessed with weight loss and diets, always counting calories and never giving in to guilty pleasures. Men think hunger can result in crankiness.

12. Men do not like having to make never-ending shopping trips.

13. Men hate waiting for hours in the lobby or living room while you unnecessarily flat-iron your hair and decide on a dress.

14. He wants you take a joke. Do not take your boyfriend’s joke as a blow to your confidence.

15. Do not turn your life into a reality show. Being dramatic and overreacting about everything just make you tired.

16. Stop crying over everything. Crying over everything mixes up your partner’s emotion. This also makes real tears and truly vulnerable moments seem not so important.

17. Keep things tidy. Watching a girlfriend’s feminine hygiene and beauty products littered around the room is intolerable for men.

18. Using premenstrual syndrome or tension as an excuse. The syndrome is terrible. However, if you use it as an excuse, it will worsen your relationship.

19. Complaining constantly about your body shape. Please keep in mind that confidence is hot.

20. Men do not like women being passive aggressive, because it means the men have to guess your feelings, which can be exhausting.