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How to cope with 10 most stressful life events

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At some point in life, everyone experiences moments of overwhelming stress that seem to take their breath away. Unexpected changes or difficult events can shake daily life, sometimes becoming so overwhelming that it’s hard to focus on anything else. These experiences are part of being human, and the weight of that stress can vary greatly depending on how we perceive and respond to it.

The British outlet Mirror has shared a list compiled by experts at U.K. health care provider Benenden Health, highlighting the 10 most stressful life events people may experience, along with suggestions on how to cope.

1. Death of a family member or friend

The loss of a loved one is one of the most intense forms of stress, often accompanied by a wide range of emotions and difficult to endure.

How to cope: Accept grief as a natural process, lean on those around you for support, and consider seeking professional help if needed.

2. Money issues

Financial difficulties can affect nearly every aspect of your daily life and future plans.

How to cope: Take a step-by-step approach. Create a budget and seek professional advice on managing your finances more effectively.

3. Workplace troubles

Conflicts with colleagues, job insecurity or excessive workload can all be major sources of stress.

How to cope: Set clear boundaries, speak up when necessary, and strive to maintain a healthy work-life balance.

4. Relationship shifts

Uncertainty caused by breakups or changes in personal relationships can lead to emotional strain.

How to cope: Communicate openly and focus on what you can control.

An official at the Ministry of Data and Statistics gives a news briefing on 2025 marriage and divorce data at Government Complex Sejong, March 17. Yonhap

An official at the Ministry of Data and Statistics gives a news briefing on 2025 marriage and divorce data at Government Complex Sejong, March 17. Yonhap

5. Divorce

The breakdown of a marriage can bring emotional pain, financial difficulties and significant life changes.

How to cope: Seek support from family, friends and professionals, and give yourself time to heal.

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6. Exams and school life

Pressure to achieve good results can lead to anxiety and burnout.

How to cope: Create a realistic study plan, take regular breaks, and avoid comparing yourself to others.

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7. Buying a home

The financial burden and complex procedures involved in purchasing a home can feel overwhelming.

How to cope: Seek professional guidance and approach the process step by step.

8. News exposure

Constant exposure to negative news can take a toll on your mental well-being.

How to cope: Take breaks from the news, limit social media use and focus on what you can control.

9. Childbirth and raising children

While these experiences bring great joy, they also come with new responsibilities, sleep deprivation and ongoing concerns.

How to cope: Accept help from others, take time to rest when possible, and be open about your struggles with those close to you.

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10. Adjusting at a new job

Beginning a new role and meeting new colleagues can be intimidating, and the pressure to make a good first impression can be stressful.

How to cope: Give yourself time to adjust, don’t hesitate to ask questions, and remember you don’t have to be perfect on your first day.

This article from Kormedi.com, Korea’s top health care and medical portal, is translated by a generative AI system and edited by The Korea Times.