Farewell, Korea
By Jeffrey Miller
When I first arrived in Korea in December 1990, I never could have imagined that it would be my home for over three decades. What started as a temporary adventure turned into a transformative journey, deeply intertwining my life with the vibrant tapestry of Korean culture, people and experiences.
Arriving in Korea two years after the monumental 1988 Seoul Olympics was an extraordinary time, filled with exhilaration and excitement ― in fact, I lived just down the street from the Olympic complex. The city was still basking in the afterglow of successfully hosting the world's most prestigious sporting event. The Olympic Games had not only showcased Korea's ability to organize and execute a global spectacle but had also propelled the nation onto the world stage, leaving an indelible mark on its identity.
As I settled into life in Korea, I had the privilege of witnessing the tangible benefits of the Olympic legacy. The international spotlight that had been cast on the nation continued to attract visitors, investors and opportunities. The influx of cultural exchange, tourism and business development brought a vibrancy to the country, fostering an environment ripe for growth and innovation.
As the years unfolded, Korea revealed itself to be a land of immense beauty, rich history and warm hospitality. The captivating landscapes, from the lush green mountains to the tranquil coastlines, became my sanctuary, offering solace and inspiration. The country's cultural heritage, steeped in tradition and reverence, awakened a profound appreciation for its past and an understanding of its present.
Korea's people, with their resilience, kindness and strong sense of community, embraced me with open arms. From the bustling streets of Seoul to the tranquil villages in the countryside, I encountered warmth and generosity that transcended language barriers. The friendships I forged, both with fellow expatriates and Koreans, became an integral part of my journey, providing a sense of belonging and support.
As the years went by, I had the privilege of witnessing Korea's remarkable transformation. The nation's rapid economic growth and technological advancements catapulted it onto the global stage, earning it a reputation as an innovative powerhouse. The sights of bustling cityscapes, state-of-the-art infrastructure and a burgeoning cultural scene showcased Korea's progress and its unwavering spirit of determination.
Throughout my time in Korea, I had the opportunity to immerse myself in various professional endeavors that further deepened my connection to the country. From teaching at ELS and Yonsei University to writing for The Korea Times and teaching at Woosong/SolBridge in Daejeon, each experience contributed to my personal and professional growth. The diversity of roles allowed me to witness Korea's educational, social, cultural and historical landscape in ways I never dreamed possible.
One of the defining chapters of my time in Korea was the opportunity to write for The Korea Times. As an expat, the Times' Thoughts of the Times column became a platform for me and many others to share our thoughts, experiences and perspectives on life in Korea.
In the warm embrace of Korea, I encountered the intricate companionship of love and death. Korean Buddhism offered solace as I journeyed through these potent experiences. Amid this backdrop, the shadow of death cast its presence, taking not only my mother, grandparents and friends from afar but also serving as a poignant reminder of life's delicate nature. Amid these emotional tides, the task of raising my four children became a wellspring of strength, a testament to the human spirit's fortitude in the face of life's deepest trials.
As I now face the prospect of saying goodbye to Korea, the weight of that decision is heavy. The memories, the growth and the sense of belonging that Korea has provided me will forever hold a special place in my heart.
My unexpected journey in Korea has been a testament to the power of embracing new experiences and the transformative nature of immersion in a foreign culture. Korea became my home in ways I never could have foreseen. I am forever grateful. While the time has come to bid farewell, the imprint of Korea will forever remain a part of my identity.
Jeffrey Miller (sparksjam@gmail.com
) is the author of several novels set in Korea, including War Remains, Bureau 39, and No Way Out.