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Thu, July 7, 2022 | 02:14
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Woman's texts to her ex threaten her marriage
전 남편에게 문자 메시지를 보내 자신의 결혼 생활을 위태롭게 하는 여성
Posted : 2014-07-10 12:51
Updated : 2014-07-10 12:51
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DEAR ABBY: I'm a twice-divorced woman who found my present husband late in life. I'm in my early 60s, and my husband is in his 70s. We married quickly because I didn't want to be alone in life and I thought I loved him.

My husband works while I stay at home because of a medical condition. Because I get bored, I spend some of my time communicating with and texting male friends from the past and one of my ex-husbands.

We have fun texting and sometimes it goes a little beyond that. I realize I am married and my ex is engaged, but how harmful can this be? I don't think I'm hurting anyone, and it helps the day go by.

Is this considered cheating? I don't think it is because my ex and I live in different states and the chances of us ever getting together again are slim to none.
PASSING TIME

DEAR PASSING TIME: This isn't harmless fun; it's a threat to your marriage. Whether I consider it cheating is beside the point. Whether your husband and your ex's fiancee would consider it cheating is the question. If they got wind of your "pastime," I suspect both would be hurt, angry and feel violated. Not only that, you could lose Husband No. 3.

※ 다음에 나오는 문제들은 본 기사에 나오는 중요한 어휘들로 구성된 토익, 토플, 텝스 기출 및 예상 문제입니다.

※ Choose the one word or phrase that best keeps the meaning of the highlighted part or fill in the blank with a suitable one.

1. Although monkeys occasionally menace their enemies, they are usually not dangerous unless they are provoked.
① kill ② consume ③ threaten ④ pursue

2. When Fred was caught cheating on his exam, he got into hot water.
① feel very hot ② become irritated ③ feel ashamed ④ be in trouble

3. If someone is not likely to pass an examination, we say his chances are ________________.
① frail ② slim ③ sickly ④ faint

4. Fingerprints on the gun were decisive evidence that the suspect was guilty.
① competent ② consistent ③ conclusive ④ coherent

5. A longer war would hurt the U.S. at home, exacerbating racial tensions because of the disproportionate number of blacks in the front lines.
① alleviating ② extinguishing ③ rectifying ④ aggravating

[번역 및 정답]

1. [번역] 원숭이들은 이따금씩 그들의 적들을 위협하긴 하지만, 그들은 성나게 하지 않으면 대개 위험스럽지 않다.
[정답] ③

2. [번역] Fred가 그의 시험에서 부정행위를 하다 걸리게 되었을 때, 그는 곤란에 빠졌다.
[정답] ④

3. [번역] 만일 어떤 누군가 시험에 합격할 것 같지 않다면, 우리는 그의 가망성이 희박하다고 말한다.
[정답] ②

4. [번역] 그 총에 묻어있는 지문은 그 피의자가 유죄였다는 결정적인 증거였다.
[정답] ③

5. [번역] 전쟁이 보다 장기화되면 전선에 투입된 (백인에 대해) 불균형적으로 흑인들의 수가 많음으로 하여 인종간의 긴장을 더욱 악화시킬 것이고, 이는 국내적으로 미국에 해로울 것이다.
[정답] ④



전 남편에게 문자 메시지를 보내 자신의 결혼 생활을 위태롭게 하는 여성

애비 선생님께: 저는 노년에 현재의 남편을 찾은 두 번 이혼 전적이 있는 여성입니다. 저는 60대 초반이고 남편은 70대입니다. 저는 인생을 홀로 보내고 싶지 않았고 제가 그를 사랑한다고 생각했기 때문에 서둘러 결혼했습니다.
 
제 건강 문제 때문에 제가 집에 머무는 동안 남편은 일을 합니다. 권태를 느꼈기 때문에 저는 과거에 사귀었던 남자 친구들과 전 남편 중 한 명과 대화를 나누고 문자 메시지를 주고 받으며 제 시간의 일부를 보냅니다.
 
저희는 즐겁게 문자 메시지를 주고 받는데 때때로 그것이 어느 정도 도를 넘어섭니다. 저는 유부녀이고 제 전 남편은 약혼을 했다는 사실을 자각하고 있지만 이것이 얼마나 해가 될 수 있나요? 제가 누군가에게 상처를 주고 있다고 생각하지 않으며 그것이 하루하루가 흘러가게 도와줍니다.
 
이런 행동이 외도로 간주되나요? 제 전 남편과 저는 다른 주에 살고 있고 저희가 다시 함께 할 가능성은 아주 희박하기 때문에 저는 그렇게 생각하지 않습니다.
시간을 보내고 있는 독자
 
시간을 보내고 있는 독자 분께: 이것은 악의 없는 장난이 아닙니다. 그것은 독자 분의 결혼 생활에 위협적인 존재에요. 제가 그것을 외도라 여기는지 여부는 요점에서 벗어나 있습니다. 전 남편과 전 남편의 약혼녀가 그것을 외도라 열길지 말지가 문제입니다. 만약 그들이 독자 분의 ‘취미 생활’에 대한 낌새를 알아챈다면 저는 둘 다 상처 받고 화나고 농락당한 기분이 들 것이라는 생각이 듭니다. 그뿐만 아니라 독자 분의 세 번째 남편을 잃게 될 수도 있습니다.
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